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I searched mostly with the help of a search angel, but a lot of the work was by myself. Knowing my history behind my adoption, I went into the reunion with the intent of finding out medical information, if I had any other siblings, but I didn't expect a whole lot out of bmom. The only thing I asked from her is that she just be honest with me. It is a big deal to me that she is at all times about EVERYTHING. By everything I mean, past, present and future. She couldn't do that, so I had to end contact with her. I simply told her to contact me when she can be honest. I didn't expect much, like I said, cuz I already knew the circumstances surrounding my adoption and why I was adopted. (I was taken by the state). Although I am a firm believer that people can change, I also know that some people don't. She didn't.
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