[Lylac]

I talked to FM today, apparently our son got in trouble at school today. According to FM someone either made him mad or they were mean to him, probably both. So he tried to spit on the teacher.
Now first thing is he's 3 y/o dev between 6 to 12 months. He can't walk, and can only say dada. And has NO business being in school all day (in his stroller)

But ya'll knew all this already, except the trouble at school today. Which I don't think really happened anyways. And like some of ya'll said before, I'm really beginning to think FM is trying to discourage us from this adoption.

I'll tell ya why. And you tell me what it sounds like.

After she told me about school , she said I noticed how mild mannered L is, I said yeah, she's like that all the time. She said, are you SURE you want a boy?
I said umm yeah, why wouldn't we? She said, well sometimes he can get very loud verbally (sounds) and makes alot of noise banging on his toys. I told her well thats just part of it. She goes on to say that the other kids play rough with him and sometimes he will try to scratch and bite her and them.

I know he fights them, we saw it, but it was to get away from them.

It's always something negative, not anything that would make us change our mind. It just seems like he's being aggressive with them because he has to or something. Because thats how they treat him.

When I don't say anything back to her, that would make her think, that anything she has just told me, affected me in the least. She goes on to say how sad she is to be giving him up, and that I needed to call our ICPC unit here and PUSH things along.

Still no word on ICPC yet, I called his CW and she hasn't heard anything yet either. But it won't be 6 weeks until Thursday. So hopefully one day soon.

Still no word from L's teacher yet.. and the sp ed classes started a month ago. Her teacher promised to call me 3 weeks ago, I've called every week. So tomorrow me & lil miss L are going to visit the school.

ok done venting for now.. what a day!