Everything has been going fabulous.
We have been really working on our relationship with dd bfamily (bmom, and bmoms family) and this week I got a real kick in the gut. DD bfather has shown up and wants to see her. Dd bmom is talking to him again and called me to ask what should she tell him. I simply told her it was our responsibility to get to know anyone before they got time with dd. I told her I know she said he is a good person but we don't know him from adam. So we told her he could email us or call for a while and we would go from there.
I am not very fond of anyone who would leave a girl in the lurch like that and take no interest or responsibility. But then again he is asking now. Oh I don't know what to do.
So why do I feel like a shmuck
? Like I have a double standard. well I guess it is because I do. hmmm I need to think about this some more.
Any advice?