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I found my bmom after 7 years of searching. I contacted her it turned out well. She had been searching for 18 years on her own and hiring private detectives. We have a decent relationship the only ding in it is with the bdad. He is a real jerk and I wish I did not know anything about him. You see she was raped so it is a BIG sore subject with her. I can respect that but at the same time I wish she had never told me about him it would have made it easier. Now do not get me wrong it is VERY emotional and hard at first I am still on the proverbial emotional roller coaster. Everything happens for a reason, I found her when I was 25. I believe that if I had found her any earlier in my life that it would not have worked out as well as it did