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Hi there,
I'm a bmom with a 21 year old son. I've done a search through the agency the adoption went through and they've found him. (horray!alive, in college!!). But he doesn't know at this time if he wants to make contact (fair enough).

Here's my question, as an adoptee, what sort of relationship do you have/would you like to have with your bmom? It would be interesting to know from adoptees who have both done searching themselves and those who were found...

Thanks in advance!