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I would suggest you research your agency VERY carefully. Have an open discussion with them about these issues, perhaps consider an abandonment case-- the kids are a bit older but my guess is that there may be a little less risk for corruption.
However....poverty is a very real issue and not an "unethical" reason for a birth mom to decide to give up her child for adoption. While a corrupt someone may take advantage of the situation, there will be many very legitimate cases of giving up due to poverty. That can only be expected in a poor nation without the social welfare system our country and other developed nations have to support unwed, poor birth mothers.
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Referral of 4 day old BG 4/07/05
Home forever 11/09/05 
lovin' family life since
June 2006: found a waiting child and starting the process to bring him home
born 4/27/03
8/22/07--home
April 2009: decided to pursue an Ethiopian adoption for "baby sister"
9/9- CIS approval
9/17- officially on the wait list~hopefully 8-10 months
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