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Originally Posted by lisallyn56
I am 29 years old. I found out that I was adopted when I was 25. My adopted mother found out something about me and became angry. When she confronted me about the situation she said by the way your adopted!!!!! She threw adoption papers at me, which I threw back. I have no info and my mother is playing the "I dont remember much about your adoption". I am now feeling so lost. My entire family keep the secret from me, they were waiting for my mom to tell me. I have such ill feelings for everyone. I will always appreciate my family. But, the time has come for me to research and i have such anxiety. If anyone experienced anxiety looking for BP, how did you handle it.
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I understand how you feel, I am sorry that you had to find out the way that you did. Always know that you are a child of this earth..there are people that wanted you, your bmom, bdad and aparents. Your mother will probably calm down and discuss this with you, if not, you will move forward, perhaps search for you bparents and heal. You are worthy. I knew that I was adopted since I was 6 years old. I always felt different. Yet I knew that I was loved. I met my bmom when I was 23, it has been a rough road since. Yet I feel that we are stronger than most. You will persevere. We are pulling for you.
