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adoptee and amom
I fit into this category and I believe that because I am in touch with my need to know my roots, I can better understand that my daughter will also have that need. I have kept a journal, pictures of both bparents, addresses, etc. so when she is curious or ready, i will give her the journal and the pictures so she can have an true idea in her mind who her birthparents are. I feel she has an advantage over me because i grew up around people who did not look like me and i had a feeling like i as missing something. i want her to have all the pieces of the puzzle which will put her way ahead of me who only completed 3/4 of the puzzle last month. (she also can look at her brother and father and see the resemblance since we are in a relative adoption).
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