Isn't it so hard??? We have had our foster son for 9 months now, and we have DEFINITELY decided to change his name... But I still have doubts and wonder it it's the right thing to do. I mean, his name was fine. It actually suits him, although it's not a name I'm particularly fond of. But just that he was named after his birth father, the bio father who never had ANY interest in him and defaulted due to not showing up for TPR hearing... Why should this little guy who will be OUR son be named after that man??? We've given him a name that has meaning to US. He will be OUR son, and my husband will be the only dad he's known. So... Yes, we'll change his name. But do I feel like it's the right thing??? I DON'T KNOW!!!!!!
