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We will be changing our new son's full name. The reason being is he was named after the guy that severely abused him. And after DNA testing it was proved that he wasn't his bdad, nor were the other 3 men that were later tested.
And I can't bear the thought of calling him that name day after day, for the rest of his life. And there are major safety issues with his bmom's family. He's 3 now, but developmentally he's between 6 months to 12 months. And doesn't even know his name.
Our daughter was 4 months old when she came to us, also severely abused. We kept her first name, and changed her middle and last. She had her bmom's first name as a middle name..and again, same story.
Neither of my kids bparents deserve to have a child , much less one named after them.
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