I am sooooo sorry for what you had to go through. We had a terrible transition in WV, too, though it wasn't as bad for our FS as it was for us and our AS. We had been in a fight with the agency because they weren't following caseplan on our teenFD and her baby. We had to ask for her to be removed. Later that week, our FS was suppose to go spend the night with ** (he was 2 wks away from going home), but mom's house disrupted and we had to put him into respite care (DH and I had major plans for that night). The agency arrived at 10:00 am Sat morning and said he wasn't coming home. They gave us 1 hour to pack his things. Then I had to tell me 4 yr old AS what had happened. The two boys were like brothers and my AS had been moved 32 times in 23 mos before we got him. He has major attachment issues and can't handle stuff like this. Luckily ** got FS back and we still get to see him....sometimes. I still cry over him. He still may not make it at home with mom and I want him back so bad it hurts. We are tyring to recert with another agency, but I am worried about what Agency #1 will say about us. It's terrible what some agencies do to these kids. Especially when they only moved our FS because they were mad at us for reporting them for not doing their job!!!!!!
