Hello! I think it would be fine to show her the room. Does this mean they are coming to your home? I think it shows that you are committed to adopting, and even though you have been trying for a while you have not given up hope, and you ready for a child,, even if it is not done, that's alright.
We met our pbparents at a chuckie cheese so her children could play. We brought a gift for their 2 children, just soemthing small, and I made homemade chocolate chip cookies..(These were a big hit,, the father loved them!) Godd luck to you.. Remember, just be yourself, and relax,,,(as nervous as you may be) it will go smoothly if you are yourself.
