[ldurham]

Okay - I'm a little offended by the choice of words here. All hair is colored - unless someone has clear hair. And the notion that "brushes and combs wreak havoc on AA hair" is another one that I am having a little difficulty swollowing.

If you are worried about the products getting into your daughters eyes - I would suggest using a formula that is specifically developed for younger users - African Pride has a great product line - although not all of their products are organic.

The key to combing and brushing "AA" hair is to make sure the hair stays moisturized. After you wash the hair, it's best to use the moisturizer while the hair is still damp and apply it daily. Finger combing might work one day - but over time you will have a bigger problem, because the hair will not have been combed through from the root which can lead to matting and breakage.

I am sure that you did not mean to offend in your posts and are probably not aware that you have. I've had a head full of AA hair for 36 years and although it can be challenging at times, I am sure no more so challenging than your own. The key is using good products and once you find a product line that works for you you should stick to it - it's easier to train the hair.

As for the tantrums during hair washing time - I just wash my FS's hair while she is in the tub with the detachable shower head - she doesn't care for it either but we only wash her hair every three days (so as not to strip her hair of it's own natural essential oils).

Good Luck