[straightblues]

You are in clear violation of the laws. Fix it if and when you need to. Your agency gave you several ways to fix it and went beyond that and adopted a "don't ask, don't tell" policy with you. If you want the kids, fix your problem if it comes up. Get an aunt, neighbor, or friend to come in. Have you mom, dad or brother or sister move in for a couple of years. Get a preschool to say you are bringing the children by. Get a friend in from Church.

Dump your agency if they get scared and go direct to the County SW (the person who was in charge of placing the children in the first place.) It sounds like the agency may want to protect their own behinds at some point (which is reasonable).

You have a issue, but it hasn't become a problem yet. And, if it ever becomes a problem, you have several ways to fix it. Enjoy your kids, you are amazing to take on this many little ones.