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Originally Posted by Bug&Bearsmommy
Ever since we had Bug placed with us, she TRIED actively to get pregnant. She did nothing but complain about every moment of her pregnancy (what a luxury to be afforded...and for her to complain to ME?? I finally had to have my mother "turn on the light" as to how inconsiderate she was being) I LOVE my boys, but it was painful, and down right infuriating to hear someone complain about being pregnant.
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Did you think that maybe, just maybe, she was trying to let you know that pregnancy ISN'T as fabulous as you think it is? Maybe she wasn't trying to rub your face in it and instead was trying to say "hey - you're not missing as much as you think you are."
I speak from personal experience when I say that it's very difficult to know how to behave when you're pregnant and someone you care about can't conceive. What exactly IS the proper way to behave when your very state of existence is upsetting to someone you care about? I think most of us just do the best we can. I tried to, anyway.