
Great post idea

But i think you might still hear the same. I haven;t even had my first "interview" with her and she has already pigeonhole dh and I.
the facts about us:
I am young (28), i was abused as a child (i think that made it to my file - the intake sw took alot of notes just to put me on a waiting list to get homestudy and she refered me to her therapist 1hr away from where i live) DH is a truck driver and is not 100% on board with adopting but is ready to do training. so she is assuming that no older child will suit us and that our relation ship is not stable (because dh is a truckdriver)

trying to keep positive

but it's not looking too good. i have the name of the manger of the Childrens Aid Society and i think i might have to keep it close in hand if after our first interview i see that she has just dismissed us completely because we are not convential.