[babyone]

I was talking with a friend of mine and we came upon a discussion. She said that paparents are "sad and pitiful" if they back out of a situation due to a child's health. I kinda want to know what bparents (or pbparents) think - using the situation of : you have picked parents for your child and have met them 1-2 times, matched for a couple of weeks - 2 months, and fully disclosed all health-related info that you know, if the child was born with a major medical condition, would you be angry at the paparents for backing out of the situation? (My stance is that, as difficult as it would be for everyone, the child should go to parents who will be able to love and care for them and if someone is unable to do that, good for them to admitting to it and giving the child a chance for a loving home with someone else.)