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Old 08-21-2006, 07:34 PM
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Hi Lizzie,
Welcome to the roller coaster called reunion. As a bmom in reunion I'm on the other side but many of the feelings are the same. Even after 9 months in reunion, I feel uncomfortable calling D. I'm always afraid that I'm going to be calling at an inconvenient time. Mostly we talk in IM's on line.

I have to share with you that as the bmom, I would definitely have moved faster than D was ready for. I've been trying to listen for cues, but sometimes it's difficult. I think many bmoms have waited literally all the achild's life for the meeting. (Unfortunately it can lead to many unrealistic expectations!)

Blessings on your reunion,
Kathy
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