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Originally Posted by Mommy24
I have been really struggling lately with the closure of my Semi open adoption with my bsons aparents. It has been 8 yrs now and I still havent heard from them, it is very frustrating and I wish I knew what caused the letters and pics to stop and why they felt the need to close the PoBox so I couldnt send letters?
So my question is this, I think legally enforcing open or semi open adoption may not not be the answer, What is the answer?? To me it is black and white, you say you will do something or you commit yourself to something then you do it. (so long as it isnt endangering the child or causing emotional problems for the child)
Anyone have any suggestions?? What can we do? How can we change it? I know for me, I teach my children that if we say we will do something,we do it..if we commit to doing something we do it......
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I haven't read through all the posts, so just bare with me if I repeat others!
I am so sorry this is happening to you. I'm not sure why someone would do that. I would think if it were causing emotional problems or something that they would at least write you and let you know?
I realize you don't want to do a legal battle but I am wondering what other steps can be taken? Was it a private adoption or through an agency? Can you contact the lawyer or sw who assisted with the adoption? Is there anyone who knows how to reach them who can be a mediator and find out what is going on?
I will keep you in my prayers, as well as your child and his aparents, too.