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Old 08-20-2006, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Bug&Bearsmommy
I too would tread lightly. Maybe she does not want to be found right now. Our Bear's b-mom took a year before she was ready to see him again. We just had the visit last weekend, and she was SO stable and excited to see him. I could tell that she was pleased with her decision and at peace with where he is. She had spent the last several months in an in-patient facility and I am SO happy to see that she is doing good. Of course it took her almost 6 months to get to the point of accepting the help she needed...including counseling to deal with her decision. Maybe she needs space.

Thank you. I know that V is, if she is doing what she had planned at the time of Roo's birth, making some efforts to get healthier in every way. I am so willing, more than willing to give her all the space she needs. I just worry because I never want her to think we weren't interested in a relationship, that we didn't try hard enough. Thanks again.
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