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As adoptive parents we have an open adoption. But, on the flip side we have not seen nor heard from the bparents since they signed relinquishments papers 72 hours after giving birth to our daughter. I would love to be able to let them know how wonderful our daughter is doing so that they are not worrying about her. I would also like our daughter to be able to meet the people who were so selfless. So, I don't know what the answer would be, but we to believe that if a promise is made on paper or verbally you need to stand by it. If things change in your life discuss it with the oppisite party. Maybe a new agreement can be worked out. Everyon loses if all contact is stopped.
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