I have been really struggling lately with the closure of my Semi open adoption with my bsons aparents. It has been 8 yrs now and I still havent heard from them, it is very frustrating and I wish I knew what caused the letters and pics to stop and why they felt the need to close the PoBox so I couldnt send letters?
So my question is this, I think legally enforcing open or semi open adoption may not not be the answer, What is the answer?? To me it is black and white, you say you will do something or you commit yourself to something then you do it. (so long as it isnt endangering the child or causing emotional problems for the child)
Anyone have any suggestions?? What can we do? How can we change it? I know for me, I teach my children that if we say we will do something,we do it..if we commit to doing something we do it......
Frustrating
