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My daughter's birthmom writes beautiful letters to my daughter. She knows we keep them in a special place for her to read when she is older.
In every letter she writes how much she was (and still is) wanted & loved. That was her biggest fear. She didn't want my daughter to grow up feeling that she wasn't wanted. She also lets her know how much pain it's caused her to let her go.
As far as I am concerned, that's all part of healing. I know that not a day goes by when she doesn't think of my daughter. Her love is pure, strong and raw. I would never deny her from loving her birth daughter.
I don't think I answered the questions you were asking. I just think it's good for birthmoms to share their feelings with their children. (As long as they are not intentionally hurting their child) I think facts are important. Half truths and lies only come back to bite you..
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