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Hi Having my second child was a mind blowing revellation of what I had lost and would never regain with my bchild. It's so weird to be someone's mother - having given birth to them etc and then you're not and never will be their mother in the normal sense of the word. It's unnatural and took me years to come to terms with it all.
AS an aparent I would acknowledge your child's biosibs as well as their adopted sibs. Because she's always going to have these sibs whether she choses to have anything to do with them or not. It's just a fact that she has bsibs and adopted sibs. My bdaughter is struggling with this at the moment and wants nothing to do with my kept children. This makes me and them sad esp as both her and her bsibs are innocent parties to my decision to adopt her at birth.
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