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What do you tell your child/ or want your child to know about the pain?
Another thread got me thinking about this....
What if you placed your child for adoption and felt that you were forced into it. What if you regretted it every day? What if you were sad and miserable and never healed from it? What would you tell the child that you placed? What effect do you think your pain would have on your child? Do you think it is appropriate to share those things with your child?
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What would you do if your child's birthmother felt all those things above. How would you want him/her to deal with it in relation to sharing with your child? Do you think a child should hear those things from their birthmother/father?
Peace,
K
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