Need some Honest input!
I was just wondering if anyone could give me their point of view on my current situation. I am considering donating eggs to my sons mother(adoptive). I am a birthmother of a gorgeous 5 year old boy. We have a very open adoption and I couldnt be happier. Throughout the years I have built a strong relationship with my sons adoptive mother, we are like family. The adoptive parents went though an unexpected divorce and my sons Amother has remarried. They are very eager to get pregnant but are having difficulty with getting an egg donor. I am really sitting on the fence with it. I know that if I were unable to get pregnant I would want somebody to do this for me, I know that if my son is going to have a sibling I think it would be great for them to have a biologocal connection, and I personally grew up with 2 siblings and couldnt imagine being an only child. I have not mentioned to his Amom that I am considering this, just because I dont want to commit to something I am not positive on.
Im wondering if doing this would confuse my birth son?
Im worried that if Amom goes through a pregnancy she will feel more attatched and connected to the new baby and leave my birthson excluded?
.....basically just looking for any in put possible!
Thank you Everyone!!
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