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First of all, if you parent your child, why would you have to see this person every day? You are NOT required to marry the person in order to parent your child. In fact, if he raped you, get a restraining order NOW to assure that he has, at best, limited access to the situation as a whole. Did you report the rape? If not, you may still be able to prove your case. Please call your local police department.
That said, if you decide that adoption is a good option for your family, again, you can know that your child is okay. Open adoption allows for firstfamilies and adoptive families to work together in the best interest of the child. It is not co-parenting by any means but, instead, firstparents are available to the child to answer questions, show love and let the child know, at all points, that they were wanted and loved.
As you've just written two myths about parenting and placement, I would strongly encourage you to take this initial time of frustration and confusion to research your options in full. Research parenting and all of the available resources for Mothers and children. They are often hard to find so ask if you need help. As for adoption, save your research for after you've thoroughly completed your parenting research. It will save a lot of confusion to separate the two processes.
Also: a reminder to all who read and post here; solicitation of expectant Mothers either via public post or private message is against the TOS and terms for banning.
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