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Anna,
That was so similar to my experiences. My DH knew when we got married that I wanted to adopt since I was 14, but when we couldn't conceive he was not done with it. We miscarried one baby and then about a year after, when My mind was numb and I stopped asking about adoption... he came out and said that he was ready to adopt. I about fell out my chair. So now we are waiting for travel call to go to Taiwan and he is HAPPY. Please don't take this the wrong way gals.. but if the DH is really abrasive... I would not "convince" him to adopt. If he is not trully happy within himself, it could prove tragic to a marriage. I know, this is the most difficult thing to do, but trust me... it is the best way to go. Dh is really happy, I am happy and our marriage has no wear and tear at least in that manner...lol.
Sarah k.
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Sarah k.
TAIWAN Independent adoption!!!!!!!
Started January 2008, referral of baby boy
in April of 2008.
 Entering courts January,
Should be home March 2009
Taiwankiddo2.blogspot.com
Taiwan info blog
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