Waiting isn't an easy thing to do. I waited for 3 yrs to reconnect with my daughter. I made the initial contact via her aparents. After she turned 18 and graduated High school I directly approached her. I figured it was HER decision now.
We emailed from March of 03 till June of 03 than everything stopped. SHE WASN'T READY. She completely shut down. She married and moved to another state.
I sat back and waited. Praying every day that she would contact me. All the praying and tears finally paid off this past April when I recieved a phone call from her. We had a wonderful week together and are still in constant contact.
I use to HATE hearing people tell me " you have to sit back and wait" "she's young give her time"  .
Now I am glad I sat back and waited as hard as it was.
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Renee
Reunited MOM to Jennifer 11/27/1984
1st Email contact 03/05/2003
Last Email Contact 06/12/2003
First Phone Call 04/08/2006
First F2F 07/24/2006
I LOVE MY DAUGHTER
"Never make someone a Priority, when all you are to them is an option"
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