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I really don't have an answer for you but did want to post and let you know how much I admire what you are doing. It really sounds like you have put your life aside and only want what is best for him and there are not too many people today that are willing to do that. Do you have any family here in the states? You hear all the time of people writing (harassing) their elected officials to try and get special visas. It is really bad that we let terroists in and can't let an 8 yr old in. Also have you tried going to the US Embassy there in Korea to see what they can do. If he is being shunned they way you are saying he is in Korea surely there is some type of visa he can be let in on. What state is your residence in the US - I am I don't mind doing some research if you like to see if an agency in your state can help you out. You might have to do some type of additional adoption process. Is the father still around if needed to sign additional paperwork? Let me know on these and I will be more than happy to ask some questions for you on this end.