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We met Ernie when he was 3 1/2 months old. We picked him up 3 months later. I dont think that he rememberd us at all.
We have seen K at 6 weeks, 3 months, 6 months, and last time was at 9 months. The visit at 6 months was two days of a terrified little guy. The visit at 9 months was 5 days of a terrified little guy. He would allow me to hold him, in fact I had to or he would scream, but until the 6th day of our last visit he would not let dh even touch him or look at him.
So... I dont think that either little guy rememberd us. With all three boys we have left little baby friendly photo albums...bear's with voice boxes in them, along wtih our pictures ironed on the shirts. They really like the bears...but I dont believe they connect the bears and the voices to our own.
This is just my expierence. Of course I would be soo happy if they did seem to remember me...and I would like to think they do...but they have not acted like it. Also...I knew going in that the visits were for me...not them...specially at their ages. If they were older it would be different. But at their young ages I"m just some stranger taking care of them in a hotel.
JMHO,
Denise
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