[dspakowsky]

I don't really know, but this is what I think... if your baby is in a loving home where all her needs are being met, she is learning to trust and depend on her caregiver. That same trust and dependence that she allows herself to feel for her foster mother will transfer over to you. Then, she'll grow to know you more and more everyday and grow to love you more than anyone.

I feel that's been my experience with my daughter. She's always been very comfortable and happy, since she had a great infancy. Now she displays ove and attatchment towards her parents. The transition was smooth with her and us.

Even if you daughter doesn't "remember", she'll also know her mama went to Guatemala to meet her, hold her, and love on her, when she was a tiny baby. She'll know you've been there since the begining!