[hubbyswife]

I just don't understand either... we've have kiddos where there's no contact at all.... from either bparent and it still moves slowly... other case, bmom is just doing visits and that's it... not working on her treatment plan or anything.. they say she has 18mths to get her act together... but a lot of times bparents start working it right before they are going to TPR so then it gets extended.... go figure... there are rules BUT the system takes in too many exceptions.... so there aren't really any rules... like they say it's a case-by-case basis....