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It's hard to put ourselves in their places sometimes. Our pbmom did the same thing to us. She go upset that we did not stay the night with the baby in the hospital after traveling 16 hours straight to MI, she didn't understand that we had to check in the hotel. So she went early the next morning at 530 am at took the baby out of the hospital. then called us in a panick because of what she had done. we had her for 3 weeks during this time she went back and forth we finally decided that we needed to go home, and that if she TPR'd that we would come back and get Chloe. The going back and forth was agony. We flew back home after being in MI for 3 weeks, paying her expenses, etc. However, one wonderful thing happened our son was born the same day we flew back. We were on another plane the next day to pick him up the parents had already signed away their rights. To tell you the truth I was happy not to have to deal with any birth parents after that ordeal. I know that they are not all like that, but I was exhausted, as I am sure you are emotionally and maybe financially!