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Old 08-02-2006, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted by tldowen
Then the next thing she said tore my heart out. Of course I didn't let it show at the time. She said what if they want me back? I wasn't prepared for that and I said, what would me and daddy do without you? And she said you could find another little girl. I said, we don't want any other little girl. Then she changed the subject.

Maybe it isn't about you. Maybe she is concerned that her birthparents miss her, or she could be afraid that they have the right to come back and get her. Maybe she wants them to want her back because that would prove to her that they love her (After all, you want to be with those you love, right?) You need to talk to her about why she feels that way and let her know that adoption is permanent.
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