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Oh, I understand that Runyon. I was just trying to point out that everybody's responses to the original poster were saying that the birth mother could not be successful at taking her child back. But nobody was addressing her fear that the birth mother would TRY to - as you pointed out, that part is still possible.
Amberl10 -
Runyon's comments about a "healthy open adoption relationship" should be helpful to you. Now that Runyon pointed it out, I want to reemphasize that here's a huge difference between an "open adoption" where you just send photographs and facts and figures back and forth, and an "open adoption relationship" where there is healthy give-and-take and an actual good relationship between the parties. Having the "relationship" part does decrease the chance that one party would want to do anything to harm the other. I hope that helps you figure out what you want and the ways to go after it.
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