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Diana - that is why open adoption is so great. Because *most* of the time, the bmom picked out the family and they too love the family. They KNOW that they COULDN'T get the child back, and the only thing they'd be doing is causing pain for thier child and aparents. Also, they'd be risking the aparents NOT allowing thier child to see them, which would be bad for them and thier child. I'm not saying bmom's won't regret it, and I'm not saying this would never happen...it's just common in healthy open adoption relationships (which is why it helps if you get help with a agency/social worker so they can help it become a healthy relationship).
Natalie
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