[jsimon]

Hello RiverBG,
I am in CA too. You can see the updates and what is going on in my case on the Thread titled "Adoption Started" Adoption started

We have somewhat similar cases.

I think that because the BF has been in contact it would not be considered abandonment even if he hasn't paid child support. (By the way the BF in my case got out of paying child support while he was incarcerated too.)

Also I would be concerned about trying to terminated his rights because he is a convicted felon. You said he is off Parole now and the court would look at that and think he is doing the right thing now. May depend on the crime.

You really need to talk to an Attorney or paralegal about that. That doesn't mean you cant do this on your own but you need some legal advice.

In my opinion your best bet may be to talk to him and see if he would be willing to sign over his rights. You can tell him he wouldn't have to pay child support anymore and he is moving on with his new life having a new baby and a new wife. He lives out of state so how much did he intend on seeing his daughter anyway. Maybe he would be willing to cut a deal with you. Maybe all he would want is to be able to see her once in a while (open adoption). I would think being free and clear of child support would be pretty tempting to him, especially with a new baby on the way. I guess it all depends on your reasons for wanting the adoption.

Sorry I do not have that form. My attorney typed ours up himself. He didn't use a form.

Good luck and keep us updated. Feel free to ask us anything. This forum is a great source of information and support.