[StorkWatcher]

Hey Carolinih -

Just wanted to pop in and say 40 being a negative - that's crazy! But I know how you feel. My hubby is 41 and was very worried last year that it would count against him. Fortunately, many expectant moms are hoping to find parents for their child that are mature and established. So negative for some, but a HUGE plus for others!

Also - regarding the depression and alcholism. This may be something you'll have in common with your future child's birthmom! An expectant mother may look at your history and think that - hey. If my kid ever has problems, his/her parents will understand from their experience and know how to deal with this. Or, she may feel more comfortable choosing you if she is/has had these things in her life also.

And you never know what might draw someone to you - it may be something off the wall that seems little, but is important enough to someone else that they overlook these things you feel might be hurting your chances of adoption.

I think someone already mentioned that you may just be required to fill out a couple forms for your agency/attorney about your medical history. Just be honest about everything up front, and it shouldn't be a problem.

So never fear - your child is out there somewhere, and I bet you'll be matched to the right people at the right time!!!!