adoption
You are correct when saying that is what REAL parents do. I have posted on a few other boards, and have received plenty of Adoption Attorney's to contact. Its so hard because we are still paying on the attorney we are using. I just don't know what to do. Our attorney is family law and has done adoptions, but a lot of people seem to think we should go with an Adoption Attorney. I have been trying to get somewhere looking on the forums or on the internet. I just cannot give up! I am just so happy this forum is available to let our feelings out. I think sometimes we need that. If anyone knows what we are going through its the hopeful couples on this board. I kept trying to understand how or why someone would want to do this. I just cannot make sense out of any of it. While I can only imagine how hard a decision of giving up your child for adoption can be. I would expect for this to have been over within the first month if not sooner. You want your baby you do whatever it takes to get the baby. You don't allow this to go on and just put this angel on hold. All I feel is this is a control issue. Clearly something should have been done on his part way before this time. Its terrifying not knowing what this guy is going to do next. I just have faith in God. Playing with a couple's emotions and promising to sign off then not doing it, then promising open adoption then changing your mind. This is not a game. I just don't understand how anyone can do this - This baby is our whole world..and the scariest part is this guy holds the key to our future..
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