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We have three biokids so no one will EVER ask us that question. As for the adoptive parents who do not have biokids, you need to come up in advance with your reply to such a personal question. How about this:
"What ever they may be, our fertility issues are personal and private. We chose to grow our family through adoption. Why do you ask?"
Perhaps she may have fertility issues and need to talk to someone about the choice of adoption and doesn't know the right way to start the conversation.
Two years ago, I met a woman with an adopted baby. I took her to the side and asked her if it was very expensive. I really wanted to know. I believe I was meant to meet her because she was so nice about answering my questions. And now we are getting ready to bring our baby home.
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Biomom of 3. Adopted mom of 1.
Adoption has been the best birthing experience I have ever had.
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