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I don't think you're being sensitive. That is an absolutely horrible thing to say to someone. It's clear to me that this day care needs some training on the issue! If the assistant director says something like that to you, I think you are within your rights to wonder if your child will be treated differently there.
For what it's worth, no one at our daughter's day care has ever said anything like that to me.
If you really like the day care, you could take a shot at talking to the assistant director, or maybe even her superior, and let your concerns be known and see what steps they are willing to take to address the issue. Or, you can just keep touring! Sooner or later you're going to find a center that you like and which doesn't say anything like that to you.
So sorry you had to go through that!
Tina
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Adoption #1, Alexandra Carolina, born 11/18/02
referral 1/03
dossier in Guat 3/03
in Family Court #3 5/03
out of FC 9/03
DNA finally 10/03
in PGN 12/03
out of PGN 2/6/04
pink on 3/3/04
in our arms forever 3/8/04
Adoption #2, Luis Alberto, born 10/30/06
171-H 11/1/06
It's a boy! referral 11/6/06
POA in Guatemala 11/23/06
In FC #4, week of 1/8?
DNA authorization 1/9/07
DNA test 1/18/07
99.99% 1/24/07, results at Embassy 1/29
FC interviews 1/29
Out of FC 2/8
PA finally 3/19 (only 50 days but who's counting...)
In PGN 3/22
KO 4/30
Resubmitted 5/3
OUT 6/25
In our arms forever 8/3/07
Same foster family for both adoptions! Yeah!
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