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Kick them. Sorry - been there, done that, have the tee shirt to show for it. Went through IF treatment, Dh w/low sperm count (2 million) and me with super high FsH (35), chances are very slim if I do get pregnant, I won't carry to term. If I beat those odds, there is a good chance I will have a child with genetic abnormalities. When idiots would say to me "oh, you're adopting??? Watch, you'll get pregnant!" my response was always "Gd, I hope not!".
I had one chemical pregnancy before we adopted. A few months ago I was over a week late. DH and I had a long talk. I told him I would accept whatever the stick said but it was negative.
I understand and respect your fears.
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4/25/05 - I600 Mailed to INS
5/9/05 - In Home Visit & Couple's Interview
6/8/05 - Received completed Home Study
6/16/05 - Home Study to INS
7/6/05 - Fingerprinted for INS
7/8/05 - REFERRAL!
7/20/05 - State Authentication Received
7/27/05 - I797 is received and sent to SC
8/5/05 - Dossier sent to Guatemala
9/6/05 - DNA Performed
9/20/05 - DNA Match
11/3/05 - OUT OF FAMILY COURT & PRE-APPROVAL!
11/17/05 - OUT OF PGN!
11/28/05 - We have our BC!
12/2 - PINK!
12/5 - GET OUR BOY!
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