Lbeansmom- We used Nightlight...I will pm you

They are FABULOUS!!! Our testimony in on their website under domestic adoptions fact sheet.
We have been so amazingly blessed. I still can't believe we've been married for almost 11 years. Where does the time go? 11years later and waiting for our 4th child...we are nuts...hahaha...
One little note I will tell you about domestic adoptions and the bfamily changing their minds...there was a point where we became so in love with our bmother that if she would have changed her mind, that is what we would have wanted. We knew it would be so painful because we were so much in-love with our babies but we knew over time we would heal. And if she had placed her baby and regretted it, she would never heal from that. And we couldn't bare that. Once we had a peace with that, we were completely free to be excited about our new baby and to help be a support for our bmother's. Now, I'm not saying that we would ask her "are you sure you want to do this"...we, dh & I, decided we were going to love these sweet moms with ALL of our heart and when you do that all your concerns take the back burner.
A very wise young mother once told me "you have to be willing to take the risk to receive the blessing." This was our daughter's bmom while she was 8months pregnant with our daughter. So much wisdom!!!
-stacy