[amberl10]

Thanks so much. I guess I'm not comfortable with my child having a lot of contact with the birth number for a few reasons. We've tried so hard for a child and who knows maybe it would be our only child, but I want to be the MOM in the picture. Don't get me wrong I would always be honest with our child about where he/she came from and who their birthparents are but having visits with them would make me jealous I think. I know it's probably a selfish thing but I think it would be hard seeing my child connect with the birth mother and then I'd fear the birth mother would up and decide they'd like to raise their child and try and take him/her back.