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I feel for all of your pain... It must be horrible... Very very sad, especially when you have actually brought the child home... But, I really gotta say guys... statements like this:
"We held, fed and loved our twin girls and know they will never get the same love, affection or opportunities from their birthmom"</SPAN>
and like this:
"We had brought home twin girls for a week. The mom decided to parent. We knew in our hearts that their lives would not be what they should or could but we looked at it like if only for a week these babies knew unconditional love and hopefully for that week they were happy"
Honestly, how would you know that they won't have as good a life? Just because someone considered adoption, doesn't mean they will be bad parents! only that maybe not all their options were possible, it may have seemed to them like they had no other choice... I guess you just can't tell what you are going to feel until your child is born...
I wish you all luck, and hope that your dreams come true soon!
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