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Hi, well, this has come up in a theoretical way for us. I went through 4 years of a previous marriage in IF treatments and though my hubby and I have been married almost 2 years, of course, no pregnancy.
I was talked into trying Clomid and then a couple of days later the option of funding an adoption with early inheritance money was brought to us. I really don't think I am able to get pregnant. I have never had a positive pregnancy test and honestly, even though few people believe me, I am okay with that!
We are still waiting to find out if it will be possible to withdraw the money (may have too much of a fee with it) and at the same time, I am in a clomid cycle. I feel really bad when I think it won't work and am SO excited to adopt. I want to adopt and my hubby wants to adopt. I almost feel like I'll be slightly resentful if I do get pregnant. I know that I will hear from MANY people, "See, aren't you glad you didn't go through with the adoption because you got pregnant?" I honestly don't know what my answer would be.
I know I'll figure out how to be excited if I were to get pregnant, but we will adopt at some point. We believe in it.
So, all of that to say that I understand and I think you're feeling perfectly normal. I hope that you find peace and that all goes well for you.
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