[Katelyn's Mom]

I am so sorry that you are going through this. People do not understand how much these comments hurt. I have had fertility issues for over 5 years and had three surgeries. The doctors say I would most certainly miscarry any pregnancy. Why would I want to put myself through that, emotionally and physically? After my last surgery I cannot ever get pregnant, however people hear I am adopting and feel it is necessary to tell me that they know so MANY people that have gotten pregnant after adopting. They also say oh, maybe you can still have a child of your own. It makes me so mad to hear these comments. Like the child I'm adopting isn't good enough.

Hang in there. I wish you all the best pregnant or not. I pray that God sees you through this trying time.