hmmm......
all i can say is i feel sry your going through all this......
personally i would NEVER talk that way to my daughter nor would i treat her badly.....
i do not fall under your situation .....sry
everyones situation is different and not all birthmoms would be like me .....
im a loving caring person ......unfortunately your situation isnt the best .......
from my own adoption experience with adoptive parents.......you have to make the best out of what you have .......
take the good from her and try to not dwell upon the bad ......
hope your relationship changes over time and lots of patience......
