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Well yes, the child is born with 2 parents. The one who is the dad is your eyes is not the one who the DNA test is going to say is the dad. Plus your eyes.. and the person in that role may not be seen as the dad to the child later. Or the child could acknowledge that he or she has a biological father and a step father...
You wishing him away will not change the fact that he is, in fact, your child's father. (Boy I wish that wishing thing worked! LOL!)
While and adoption does replace his name and falsify a peice of paper... it doesnt change your childs genetic make up. Even with the name erased the other person is still, in fact, the childs biological Mother or Father. The adoption replaces the financial responsibility from that point forward.. but even if you dislike, or dont want anything from that person, until that peice of paper is falsified.. he or she is still responsible.
And they should be heald as such. You shouldnt feel bad for accepting the checks. If you dont want them.. put them in savings for your child...
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